When you’re near her genitals, it’s best that you start with the inner side of her thighs, her mons veneris and the entrance to her vagina. Imagine that you’re travelling in concentric circles of increasingly greater pleasure and passion.

When you finally reach her clitoris, her sexual energy and arousal are at its pinnacle. Women like different kinds of stimulation, so you have to become an expert for her desires. First, caress her bottom part and the area around her clitoris. Then, move to the prepuce and rotate her clitoris between your thumb and index finger – be gentle! Only then you can move to the clitoris. How you caress and fondle her is much more important than where you caress and fondle her. Evenly caress her or move your finger in circular motion, but don’t be too fast or too slow. Avoid any firm moves. The sensitivity of the clitoris is much more concentrated than the sensitivity of the penis, and focused and subtle movements are therefore more appropriate. Experiment with different kinds of touching and change the pressure. If your partner likes what you’re doing, she’ll push her genitals towards you and thus indicate that she wants more stimulation. Sighs, moaning sounds, muscle twitching, bending of toes and sweating, as well as smiling and other facial expressions are signs indicating that she likes your performance. If you fondle her too strongly and she feels unpleasant, she’ll withdraw a little bit. At that point, you reduce the pressure or try fondling her in a different way...

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