I'm married but have met someone who is also married. Have been with him now for nearly a year. We have sex probably 3 times a week. Amazing sex. Problem is its love and I want to be with him. He loves me but doesnt want to leave the wife and kid. I can understand that but I dont like it. I would leave my husband in a flash. Can we just keep doing what we are doing? Does anyone else have a similar experience and what happened. Will we end up together when the kids are older? or is it doomed?

id leave it ,you dont have a problem leaving your husband for what ever reason, and so you need someone who is as ready as you are and who isnt in two minds, your 100% he is 50% committed, this thing youv got could drag on for years in secret and thats not a way to have a real relashionship.

My advice would be first ditch your husband if your not happy ,get a divorce then ditch this other guy and put it all behind you ,then go find other single men who are not tied down or with any obligations so they are committed 100% to you.

I suppose he would leave his wife if he was really into me - maybe the kid is just an excuse - but I dont wanna make a choice - too hard - sets in chain a whole range of events I cant control. Like you say buttman - I could be in this situation for years - but is that all bad?? I have never had such great sex!!!

Sex isnt everything in a relationship, but good sex helps ill admit. If you really dont love your husband i would leave on that basis alone. You also have to consider the consequences of when you finally get busted - which you invariably will sooner or later. I agree with Buttman, you should ditch all this and start afresh as being 'the other woman' must be pretty unfulfilling.