I gave birth 6 weeks ago and was horny the day after, unfortunitly was completely unable to do anything about it. At 4 weeks we decided to give it a go and it hurt like hell and I don't count it as sex what so ever, we tried again a few days ago and it still hurt and felt shit. I can orgasm just from rubbing my clit, but it's not enough, I need to be fucked, pounded, slammed and rammed. This is making me seriously depressed, it's the longest I've gone without sex in 6 years and from what people have told me, it may never feel the same again, I have to learn how to enjoy making love and taking things slow, which bores me and I would rather not even bother.

So anyway the question is whats the longest you've gone without sex and how did you cope?

I have been in the same situation and we came to a comprimise we went anal for a period of time and also used a dildo on occasions which was used in my vagina.
Using both holes at the same time can be really interesting if you have never tried it I suggest that you try it at least once or twice, you can always have a drink or two to help you relax and believe me it is very satisfying.
My old boys cock is almost 8 inches and I found myself in a new world where the more i got the more i wanted the sensations are out of this world and the orgasisms are mind blowing but you have to judge for yourself and your other half could be suprised with the change especially if he has't tried it before.
Once you have squeezed something the size of a watermelon out of something the size of a pea taking it up the ass is quite easy.