Hi

I am writing cause I have the annoying problem of finding it extremely hard to cum from oral sex.  I have experienced this with heaps of girls who i know are very good at giving head but it takes me soooo long to cum which usually leads to the girl getting to tired and finishing me off inside her.  I love the feeling of oral sex but I just find it so hard to cum.  With intercourse I have complete control, I can cum in five minutes or five hours, it is up to me.  When i masurbate i can cum in a matter of minutes.  But with oral sex it just takes forever.  Does anyone else have this problem, please let me know any tips youve got to help me cum more easily from oral sex, cause i love it so much.

thankyou

Does she go up and down your whole cock?, not just suck your knob for example, she has to deep throat you all the way and put some pressure and speed into it, and some times give you a bit of a hand job while she is sucking you off too will help and you need to lay on your back, not so much sitting or leaning, you need to be on your back flat, and evey now and then thrust in and out, "obviously in sequence with her" you push forward as she takes you in, vise versa......some times if it is still taking its time, play with your balls or play with her and think of some things that make you horny...

Azza.....:)

Hi, i have the same problem as you i have been with my current gf now for over 5yrs. Now basically when we just play around i can make her cum without a problem but as soon as she starts with me after 10minutes i just dont want to cum anymore. We have tried different things from her playing with my balls to tittie fucking but just ends up the same me not cuming. Then after all this she starts to feel really bad that she cant make me cum this has now been going on for a few months and its really starting to get to the both of us.

If we have sex im fine but oral its just no go anymore she used to make me cum all the time but now she doesnt. Nothing is different does anyone have any tips or suggestions to help

dude, i am in the same boat...dont worry about it. most women i know dont like to swallow and most men they have been with cum too soon it ruins the night, so when they find they can suck me for an hour and i dont cum in 2seconds and am still hard they seem to love it.

i have cum close (mind the pun) when we were in a 69pos,me on top. the angle felt so good, and if it wasnt for her gag reflex i would have blown an almighty load down her throat...oh well. Dude its cool, go with it!!

I really like sucking and licking and playing with a cock...tho I end up preferring the guy to masturbate and then I take his cock deep inside my mouth as he blows...

From a woman's perspective...your mouth and cheeks get sore if you're sucking cock for too long...

Try that, I wldn't think you're gf wld be offended/upset

I really really like to swallow...and also to have the guy blow on my tits and face...just me tho...but that generally takes some input from the guy...ie not just me and my hand, mouth and tongue...

I too suffer from not being able to cum. In fact I could count on one hand how often I have cum from a blow job. :(

I also take AGES to cum from masturbating - generally its about 40 minutes, which probably doesnt help either.

Any suggestions?

Maybe you should get her to rub your balls especially just behind the balls also make sure there is enough friction. Sucking more on the way down  and relaxing on the way up also using the tongue to push the knob into the roof of the mouth this is where all the feeling is, if you have a foreskin get her to pull it back and work your knob with her tongue.

Just reading your comment and you make me want to cum over and over again for you... Just thought id let you know ;)

i had the same problem i found this girl off AAA i never had that problem again lol

Had the same problem for a quite a while.. I overcame it by not trying. Found that by trying to tense my cock and the muscles around it in her mouth i was actually losing feeling.. so now if I just relax, I have no problem cumming in her mouth. I'm VERY oral so not being able to cum like that was distressing for me but now that I can relax and just let her do it, there's no issues at all.

She used to get tired and sore but she's actually happy that I cum fairly quickly in her mouth now.. so am I! She's happy for me to take as long as I want with sex though! lol

I think that it's to do with your mind-set.

I only started cuming from oral in the last couple of years (I am female though).

I never thought I would come from oral but I worked on it with my mind. I would fantasise while I was receiving that I was watching myself being quokked. Mostly I'd think of my favourite porn clips, and eventually I could just fantasise about the partner I'm with, now it is very easy - providing the general technique being performed is right, now it's is my preferred method to orgasm and generally the quickest way too.

I sometimes have problems cumming from head too even though i love it so much. I can say that the times I have shot my load down a girls throat seem to be when she really gets into it and ive noticed if she uses her hand at the same time or moans while sucking me then that seems to get me off quicker

I'm having the same problem. My girl tries so hard to make me cum from oral, but for the life of me, it takes her jerking me off for me to shoot. I think i've got it stuck in my head that ive been trying so hard not to cum from oral when i was younger, that now its a real challenge. One way Ive found to get around it though is to have my girl take my balls in her mouth sucking on them really hard, while jerking me. and then moving back to sucking my cock and going back and forth every so often. this manages to bring me to a good load.

I am loving the input from the ladies on this...you all have worked it down to an art form. Thanks, Prue, Tiffany and darkmaiden

ausguy mate im in the same boat here, the biggest problem is not being able to make the big statement, hey i dont think its going to work. the girls have made some good points but honestly ladies its really hard to say to your girl that technique isnt owrking

I have no trouble getting off and id be happy for you to take my cum anytime you're in my area - Bendigo, Vic that is. Where are you?

this does not seem to be uncommon. i have only ever come from head twice, both times with a guy. i love it when girls do it and love to 69 with them, but no girl has ever got me off from head.