Can anyone tell me why a lot of females don't like a bum smack or hair puulig during sex? It adds to the excitement as long as done in an affectionate way.

We have no idea.....

As a women I like the soft bum smack but I am not into the hair pulling becuse it hurts and I in no way find that sexy

 

My partner agrees with hair pulling as hurting.  And so would I!!!  Bum smacking has never been a problem with any woman I know??!!  It seems to turn them on almost in a submissive kind of way.

my wife loves being spanked as long as she is in the right kind of mood. I can't just walk up and smack her arse any time of day this would just piss her off. But if she is already horny then the harder i spank her the wetter she gets. Hair pulling is very similar while she isn't into it as much as spanking if i am screwing her from behind she likes her hair being pulled a little. This is a submissive type of thing though and if your partner isn't the submissive type hair pulling probably wont get the response you were after.

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Good2Go

I agree with the others. I'm a big time submissive. The harder you spank or pull my har, the wetter I will be. However, this isn't for everyone and I would imagine it would be weird for anyone not submissive.

Also, just because one may be submissive, doesn't mean these will turn you on.

Bum smacking and Hair pulling are traditionally though of as a dominate thing to do to another person, the women you are dating mighten be submissive.

As a woman I can say that I haven't complained when my hair was pulled or my ass smacked.

Gentle hair pull not riping it out at the roots.

It does add to the excitement when you're in the moment but do not go overboard or do all the time it gets a bit much.

"Variety is the spice of life".