hey there ppl its my first post so please help me out before my gf and i started going out we would have sex 5-6 times a day then she left to in overseas for a month, when she came back it was the same for a few weeks, fantastic sex. But now were lucky to have sex 1ce every 1-2 weeks, i love her alot and i know we are both faithfull to each other, but she just says she doesnt feel like it she assures me that its nothing ive done, but how can it go from 1 extreem to the other....................................?i its got to the point where i feel bad suggesting sex, and i feel embarrased because i know what her answer will be "just go wank" is her usual responce i hate it, am i being selfish? PLEASE HELP ME

How long u guys being seeing eachother. Maybe its time to spice it up, adult stores, swingers scenes, see if that gets her interested. The extremity of the situation is a concern, are there any mental health problems, mood swings, sleeping a lot. JUst throwing ideas at ya. Try get a history about her. Good Luck Mate

I have found that with my wife, we are lucky to have sex once a month but for the last five years we were caring for her mum and in addition to having three kids it took up a lot of our time and whilst I was always ready to go, she was tired or pre-occupied. So, in short your missus might just have a lot on her mind or be extremely busy. Just a thought

Hi wtf87

Maybe she met someone while she was overseas.

You could sit and ask her what is going on and tell her how you feel.

You could even suggest a hotel room for something different.


Tiffany

 

hi wtf87 sounds like exactly the same situation as me and my wife. all i can say is if she is like my wife, you don't have much to look forward to. we used to have sex that often before the wedding but now its about once a month if i'm lucky. i've tried a lot of things to get her going, but all to no avail. if you find out anything that works for you, let me know.