hey.. im a 28 year old guy and well i troll the internet alot mainly because i dont go out that much as most of my friends are all married or in serious relations ships.

When im on the net and chatting to girls or looking at porn etc i wank a bit. and most night will wank and ejaculate like 1 - 7 times this is not unusual.

i love wanking to porn to so much.

he first time i wank it usually takes me anywhere from 1 - 4 hours to ejaculate depending on how horny i am etc.

then the rest can be like less than ten mins..

my problem is this.. im sorta seeing this girl and shes absolutely fucking hot and im really turned on by her and we have sex reguarly but i can never e during sex.

ive tried wanking while i suck her tits or lick her out etc but it really offends her (first girl to get offended by this)

now im not ugly by any means in facnt many girls online always tell me you could get any girl you want, so its not a confidence issue im having. it just seems at some point during our sex i start having mind issues and stress myself ou about cumming..

i spoke to a mate about this too and its happening to him too..

no sure if diet is anything to do with it, we both relatvely skinny and dont eat a great deal.

im worried about it. she cares alot about me, and im able to make her e about 5-6 times but i want to be able to e for her..
she would love that..

can anyone give me some serious suggestions.. this is a genuine issue.

im not sure why the topic says 'e' its supposed to be guy cant e..

I have the same problems too with my GF... I was horny and erected at first then.... when we put the condom on or doing forplay... I don't feel errouse anymore and it goes down.

Is that really a mind issue? My GF told me there is something wrong with me and I should get it checked. because she never encountered things like this before.

I do masturbate a lot before, now I cut down because of this, because I thought that was the cause of the problem.

The thing is when I watch porn I stay erected for so long but have to rub it, if I don't do that, it will go soft.

My questions are
1. is there somethingwrong with me?
2. is there a way to fix it? I bough the spray that suppose to help you erected but that doesn't do shit.. (don't waste your money)
3. or is it because I don't get arrouse when we are just about to do it?

Please help

I have the same problem too, couldn't stay erected.

Is there something wrong with me? because when she is not around I can stay erected really hard.

I was horny then suddenly I don't get aroused anymore then it won't stay up, but once the penetration started, I am ok.

Is there a way to fix it? or is it really a mind issue?

I've heard hypnotherapy can help, but I can't speak from personal experience.

Obviously this is all in your head and the more you think about it the worse it's going to get. I would stop masturbating for a couple of weeks, watch your favourite porn each day so when it does e to having sex with your partner, you are so horny there is no way you can't ejaculate!