I really like submissive sex, being told what to do, spanking my ass, whips, not too hard, blindfolds etc, but my partner doesn't really get into it...I'm not too sure that I should push it, but I find 'normal' sex is just sooo boaring,

so how do I find that balance to keep us both happy??

i suggest working into it slowly. maybe a bit of a dress up to begin with, then introduce some handcuffs and blindfolds and see if he takes a hint. if all else fails, just start to dominate him and see if he reciprocates.

Yeah thanks for that, seriously tried all that and more, just now learning to live without it...can't have everything we want...

Thanks again..

well you don't have to live without it, just find other ways to get it.

that just maybe exactly what I am going to do....disappointing that I have to make that change...why is life so difficult???

i'm not sure why its so difficult. it just seems to be that way. i have the same problem with my partner, she doesn't want sex that often and when she does, its just purely vanilla. i'd do anything at the moment to have some sex that is a little more adventurous.

I know how you feel...my wife says that we always have sex the same way (not that it's frequent, mind you), but she refuses to adapt and do something different...missionary 90% of the time and she rarely 'has time' for foreplay (I love foreplay and teasing leading up to sex)....

I'd be bored out of my brain...I am able to do some of the things I want, it's just not enough for me...

Missonary is my least favourtie...I'd rather have do anything else....

I know the feeling of having enough time, but if it's important to you then you make the time..we all get annoyed and stressed out, but life is so short and we need to enjoy it to the fullest...

It seems to be a common problem...that we are lacking something we'd like in our sex lives...i dont really have much to complain about...this is the one area that I'd like to have more of. Thanks guys..

Seems to be the case, Jazz.

I agree with missionary...I like my wife to be riding me...more to occupy my hands and mouth with...  hehe

Yeah that's awesome too....I like to watch the faces you silly men pull...

nothing like orgasm faces

Yeah Shaft I have to agree...
Sometimes I think we'd laught at ourselves if we could see...hehe

Hey, sometimes the women's faces are just as good

Hey Shaft...are you saying I have a funny face??? LOL!!

Is it just me...

I really like it when a guy calls me names during sex...or foreplay...it really makes things super hot for me...

I enjoy being called names and hearing it from a guy makes me weak...but if someone did it to me in in other situations i'd wanted to hurt them..
Am I the only one who feels this??

Thanks

Jazz..x

hi Jazz ,

  its not just u , i dont want abuse from wife , but when playing with guys i luv to be dominated and called all sorts of nasty stuff .

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alpal

Funny face? No, not at all, although in the Audrey Hepburn movie of the same name, I thought Audrey was gorgeous...take from that what you will. ;-)

I can see the appeal in name calling...haven't yet had it happen...

I have been with alot of girls who seem to have the exact same reaction as what you just described. I dated a girl for a while who when in the mood would love to be called names and feel like a sex toy. This gradually led to more submissive actions and eventually complete submission to all my desires. This really seemed to turn her on. Now we are apart and I am actually looking for someone to fulfill my submissive desires. Wish me luck!

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Alex, Pegging Sub ;)