power exchange between partners

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I am in a very very very vanilla marrige, I love my wife to death but she has no interest in BDSM .  I have tried to kiss her feet at times but she jerks back and says " yuk" don't do that"  I belive a woman is more of a dominant species when comparing them to males. Woman had beauty, glamour - having said that, I go to a proffesional establishment every so often and vent my submissiveness to a Mistress.  I almost find it an unwinding experience for me.  I don't at all like or have an interest in pain ,but being humiliated by a mistress and serving her in backside worship, feet worship being spat on or peed  on gives me a sence of calmness. 

Does this make sense. 

I live for D/s and SM...

My girlfriend loves me to be dominent, and aggresive.

i love real hard, aggressive dominant men, especially when they're so hot they push me against the wall & force themselves inside me.

I have a hubby and also a girl i play with every now and then.

With my hubby, i love it when he's rough with me, spanks me and is really rough and forceful.

With my girl, i get more aggressive and am more dominant with her.

My girlfriend went back O/S to teach, so i kinda miss having her to tie up. For me however it is more a case of me being satisfied that she has been able to  have multiple orgasms, whilst being restrained and in some cases mild torturous clamping. She also enjoys (after much training) anal penetration with toys of varying dimensions.

She also loved to play out scenarios similar to the "Black Van" ic. I picked her up at the airport on one occasion and tied her to the parcel cage in my van, pulled her panties to one side and left her like that, exposed wearing a blind fold, she must have enjoyed the ride because even before we headed off to the warehouse she was ever so wet.

i love submitting to Women; foot worship, massages, and indeed just about everything about M/f dynamic

i was born submissive and love being fucked hard. currently living wiith my Master and always left wanting more :P

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Good2Go

As you might guess from my username, this is an area I am VERY interested in.

My wife can't even bring herself to slap my balls let alone kick them but I would love to be bound and have my cock and balls brutalised and my arse well and truly abused by a mistress.

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wife and girlfriend

I dont like being submissive, but i love being dominate.

Mmmmm I'm getting wet just imagining that!!!!

I must say that I'm for diversity in the sex life, and would agree to play some day dominance games, but also must admit that I don't like pain, so the dominance must be light :)

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Samuel

I love to be dominated...when he's really agressive...i fuckin love it, and i'm soooo horny!

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bit.ly/erross

I love being the dominate one! Favorite position is fucking a girl from behind and pulling her hair back and slamming her arse as hard and as fast as she can take it. I'm amazed at how hard some girls can handle their hair being pulled back. That's gotta hurt. Shoving the girls head in a cupboard or tying her up is fun too.   

Update, My wife has trodden on and kicked my balls as well as slapping them around, WOW I LOVE IT !

The only way it would be better is if she would tie me up and just brutalise my balls but I don't think she will ever go that far. She gave me the best orgasm of my life the other night, she had cum 6 times, mainly through oral, then she straddled me and with lube rubbed my cock just the way I like it with one hand while kneading my balls into my legs with the other. I came like never before.

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wife and girlfriend

Definitely want to try this sort of thing... Both ways. I'm a bit of a wimp though so the girl would have to be gentle (very low pain threshold). But good lord what I wouldn't do to have a girl tie me up and spank me and make me do her bidding.

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id love to f#@k you hard in your nurses uniform! treat you like my naughty little cock slut that should be fucked hard with my cock, toys and myfist!!!

I love being extremely dominant in the bed room. it's kinda funny I start out slow with just light spanking and then it turns into "almost CENSORED". Though I generally dislike violence I make an exception during these times.

My favorite though is having a slave girl do everything you tell her, though more often than not she will refuse just to be punished.

that is soo hot where can i find a guy like that???

I enjoy being dominated by a man to a certain extent such a's being tied up, nipples bitten quite hard, deep hard sex, hair pulled back when fucking doggy style but not into violence or being submissive where the guy wants to be satisfied but doesn't ensure I'm satisfied. I wouldn't cut it as a submissive as my mood with sex changes, sometimes I want to dominate in bed, other times I want to be dominate and other times I just want it to be passionate.

Makes a lot of sense. I too am in a very vanilla marriage,the product of my wife being abused by her father brother & uncle. So many times I tried the loving & gentle approach with her while inside I was screaming for some fun play & excitement.but after 20years of always doing it in the dark missionary style & having lost the love of a lady that thought the same way I did,(she walked away because I was married & wouldn't be in a threesome) all I can say is get out there & enjoy life before the fire burns out like it has with me. Play safe, have fun & live your dreams.

if your near the gold coast ;) lol

I love being dominant with women but submissive with men. I think my partner (male) feels bad when I want him to be dominant and if he does treat me rough it's never as rough as I want... When I say spit and piss on me I mean it!

Rainbowlover04:

I love being dominant with women but submissive with men. I think my partner (male) feels bad when I want him to be dominant and if he does treat me rough it's never as rough as I want... When I say spit and piss on me I mean it!

I met a hot girl on-line ... we flirted a bit, a bit on on-line sex .... but as she lives in the USA ... it petered. On thing she told me was that if we ever met, she wanted me to pull her hair HARD when we f#@ked. I think her hubby wouldn't do it for her. I told her it wasn't the sort of thing that got me off .. but being a gentleman ... of course I'll do it for you. I always wondered if I could. Hurting a woman doesn't come natural to me. But Rainbow .. if you want me to piss and spit on you ... I can do that!! ;-))

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