Cora:Has anyone tried oversized dildos and vibes? I'm thinking of getting something pretty big.
My wife and I are into oversized dildos. The largest one we currently have is 3 inch wide but is only short at around 6 inches long. She is still getting used to this one and when in the mood can take most of it. Currently our Bam dildo which is 2-1/2" wide fits her perfectly however the length is wasteful as it is about 13 inches long.
Using very large dildos has been incredibly exciting for us. Over the years of stretching around these oversized dildos she has become quite loose however to some extent this has always been our goal. I adore her vaginal looseness and the looser she becomes the more she excites me. I tell her all the time how much I love her large loose pussy so in our relationship her looseness is not a negative as it is very much encouraged, but I know many men and woman complain about their partners not being tight. If you go down the path of stretching yourself on a regular basis don't expect your pussy to stay the same. You and your partner should be committed and embrace the changes that will likely take place to your vagina. Once you make love to a large toy and it starts to become the norm your pussy will probably never be the same again. This is our experience anyway. Don't think of this as a bad thing because it is not, but you should be conscious that your partners penis even if it is large will start to feel different so make sure you are both comfortable with the inevitable change your vagina will take over the coming months. In reality it is no different to the changes that can sometimes happen after giving birth. The fact is things do change.
If you get something large you should expect some discomfort at the start but this is a necessary part of learning to enjoy a large toy and any initial pain won't last long. If you can live with the initial discomfort until you become used to the stretched-out sensation I know you will find an amazing level of pleasure that you just can't get from regular sex or traditional sex toys. Using huge dildos on my wife is incredibly satisfying and I am so glad it is part of our regular sex lives. The orgasms she has when being penetrated by a huge dildo remain the most intense she has ever had and I take great satisfaction from being able to pleasure her this way.
Not sure where you plan on starting but something silicone that is around 2" wide would be a good place to start. You will probably move on from this size quickly though as it is not much larger than the average man. Something 2-1/4" to 2-1/2 inch will probably last you some time however it might be too big a place to start. It just depends on your attitude and what you are currently capable off. If you go large at the start just take your time and listen to your body.
Quality sex toys are not cheap so make sure you purchase something that is realistic feeling and made from a safe material. You probably should budget to spend at least $100 upwards for a quality toy. This sounds like a lot but it is really not worth purchasing cheap large dildos because you get what you pay for and the type of material used on the cheap ones will be smelly and unnatural feeling and may harbour bacteria. Also invest in a lot of lube as you will need it and don't want to run out just as you are starting to make progress.
Good luck if you decide to join this special club. Being a size queen is something to be proud off. The 4 girls that I know that have gone in this direction have never looked back.
