Sounds like u need to get your confidence back. Your grieving a loss it takes time, go back to the basics what you like doing the rest will e. Always talking to mates is a good thing. Let her go the sooner the better. Good luck

How long u guys being seeing eachother. Maybe its time to spice it up, adult stores, swingers scenes, see if that gets her interested. The extremity of the situation is a concern, are there any mental health problems, mood swings, sleeping a lot. JUst throwing ideas at ya. Try get a history about her. Good Luck Mate

Sounds like someone may be in love, time will tell. Stay away for three months see what happens, then u will know. Good Luck

Sounds rough, its a shame its all based on sex. Have you guys ever thought of seeing a proffessional about your situation. Has it always been the same. Does he spend time with the kids and do the dad thing, help them into their transition toward adulthood. Does he romance you at all, it seems he's a big kid that needs mothering, and ...